29, Single and with Child
Hee waitse life ke skorokoro
strong. Plans don’t go according to the way they have been scheduled and
you end up making sacrifices that don’t benefit the one that you actually want
to protect….
I get that when you are young,
vulnerable and ambitious you tend to make silly mistakes and I’m now aware
that only the clever learn from those
mistakes…..I suppose I should also admit that I have made my fair share of
mistakes and I do acknowledge that what seemed like a good idea then is not so
beneficial now.
I would give up my boobs to correct all the wrongs I
have done and if you have ever seen my boobs then you would know that I would
be giving up thee most important part
of me. Lol! On a serious note though I‘ve been blessed with a very handsome son
and a together family mara I can’t help but wonder ukuthi is this what I have planned for myself mara hee? I’m not sure what people my age should be looking for, I
mean what does being 29, single and with child really mean….does it mean that I
have lived my life and I should rather concentrate on my son or does it mean
that I have to pressa, pusha, phanda so that I’m not a bitter 39 year old lefetwa with a child in a decade or so. I mean I really rock my 29
don’t get me wrong but the confusion that I see in the world is making me naar
also because I look left and right and everybody udlala ma-dice (getting
married to sugar daddies) and I worry because I don’t want to end up there I’d
rather be the lefetwa I am….wait a
minute kanti ke lefetwa? I suppose
when you my age and you not even in a relationship then olefetwa*sigh*
Mara I think 29
is the best age for one to be in because you’re bidding farewell to the most
confusing yet fun era and saying hello to a rather comfortable and directive
but also super demanding era. I have to say that being 29, single and with
child is not as scary as it sounds, yes its challenging especially when
everybody around you is getting married and
all they talk about are their husbands and it gets rather uncomfortable,
either than that it’s just a state of mind shem… I make 29 look good, without
me it would just be another number making women miserable cause I doubt men go
through the same ish that we women go through…..I mean look at Bheki Cele,
Morgan Tsvangirai, Mporesident wa Afrika borwa and the list is endless they’re
not letting their ages get them down
they are living it up, so why do we as women let our ages screw us over…..hai phansi nge-depression phansi…….I’m 29, single and with child….He
is 7 years old and cuter than
his parents combined. He is intelligent than most so why worry heh……I’m
29, single and with child ,if you have a problem with that then deal with it cause you can’t change it darling…..I’m
here and I feel my 29, bofetwa and with child.
Manoshnosh
aka Manosh
