***It Sparkles***

What a short week it has been (My opinion)

It been a crazy blog week, the highlight being yesterday with Grandee and Gift!! This is our home guys, and as much as we hate to love each other, WE DO!

Let me share little personal story (this when Mehle need to skip)

Six years ago, when I finally escaped an abusive relationship, the abuser burnt half my clothes, and threw away all my jewellery. I am sure I had over 30 earrings about 10 bracelets and necklaces, nothing fancy, as I was still a student.

Starting over was not easy, I had to prioritize what I NEED vs WANT. I never ever bought jewellery ever since then. I do not own earrings, and have never worn any in 6 years, I only have one earing to keep my piercing open. I actually think I look weird with earing on. The only jewellery I have is a watch Rhofiwa got for me for Christmas last year, that's' if that counts for jewellery... :(

***Please save the sympathy neh... I am over it now***

So from the polls, we decided that today we tolahPic all things that sparkle... Our favourite jewellery...

• Single dotis, your favourite jewellery,
• Fiancés, your engagement ring,
• Home affairs married dotis, your wedding bands.

Have FUN!

By Lufuno

These are my confessions....

Just when I thought I said all I can say....

1. I am a loner!! I love being on my own, to a point that I think even people need to be left alone,     so even when I feel the need for company, I don't want to bother anyone. That's why I don't have many friends, and cant keep them too. You guys are my true friends and know way more than my real life friends know about me, and I know this is a greater risk :(

2. I am a shopaholic. Just like sexaholics, they don't do it for the pleasure, but for the experience. So I have many clothes and shoes I have never won, and chances are, will never wear. I even buy in smaller sizes, hoping to lose weight, but I am doing nothing about it.

3. I am a slob!! I feel uncomfortable in a squeaky clean place. But cant stand a dirty kitchen and bathroom. I am always washing dishes and disinfecting cupboards and shower and toilets.

4. I am no fashionista... I am not bothered by latest trends and stuff...  Jeans/shorts/skirt, tee shirt and flip flops do it for me... But I love watching and following trends. My personality does not allow for such. #blend

5. I prefer masturbation orgasms to those of actual sexual intercourse. But I love the connection and penetration...

Bonus confession...
For the life of me, I cant keep my OWN secrets, therefor I cant lie to save my life, so I don't even try. But I am good at keeping other peoples, and I am a good listener....

So this is how it works: I dare someone to share their confessions, once they are done, they dare someone else. I will dare five people, but you only can dare one :) LETS GO!

Volunteers are welcome! It is actually recommended....

I dare Nana, Blindfold, CherryPlum, Lolington, and Zoe to confess.

By Lufuno

Love your Body!

There is no such thing as a "perfect" body.

No need to even explain this....

Stop picking yourself apart
Let’s face it: No matter how close-to-perfection body you have, chances are, there is something you would change about it if you could.

Get real

Did you know that most of the images you see on television, movies and magazines aren’t even real? A model for a magazine cover goes through hours of professional hair and make-up, has professional stylists, top photographers who know her "best side," professional lighting, and that’s all before the chosen photo goes to a company where they remove stray hairs, wrinkles, blemishes and "extra" curves.

Change your inner dialogue

It’s been said that we teach others how to treat us. If we believe that, the message that comes across to others is that we are not worth being liked, loved, or treated with respect. Most of it comes from what we’re not even saying. Choose to believe that you are worth taking care of and that you have the right to be respected and treated with dignity – and act like it.

Take care of your body

Diets, pills, quick-fixes, binging, not exercising, over-exercising, all these things disrespect one of the greatest gifts you have been given – your body! You only get one per lifetime, so give it the respect it deserves. You will not only feel better, but you just might become someone else’s role model!

Focus on health and feeling well.

Stop obsessing over external appearances and obtaining an ideal body, and instead focus on the way being healthy makes you feel and what it gives you.

Treat yourself the way you’d treat someone you love

Stop speaking to yourself the way you would not speak to your child.  You’ll find a deeper sense of gratification and more motivation to stay on track. You’ll also begin to lose tolerance for the way unhealthy choices make you feel.

 

 

Source: http://tinybuddha.com/blog/learning-to-love-your-body-4-steps-to-self-care/



                                http://www.cosmopolitan.com/health-fitness/advice/a6458/reasons-for-you-to-love-your-body/

                               http://www.sparkpeople.com/resource/wellness_articles.asp?id=271&page=2

 

Lufuno

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Crazy but AMAZING!

My shower thoughts...

The other day when I took a shower longer than my usual 5 minutes, I had this crazy but AMAZING idea... There are certain things we go through which are so crazy, but AMAZING, which makes life worth living.

MOTHERHOOD/FATHERHOOD - The crazy life of no sleep, being responsible for a little human being! The financial crippling, running around and forever wanting to protect and care for this little person forever!! But its one AMAZING FEELING EVER!







TRAVEL - One of the most fulfilling and most educational thing to do, but it too damn expensive, and the struggle to relate to different cultures, but that ends up being the most AMAZING tool to possess.



EXERCISE - This requires commitment an resilience!! Painful, but the results on your body is totally AMAZING!



HEALTHY EATING - You know how flavourful and delicious unhealthy and fatty food is?? But because we need to take care of our bodies and health it needs to be done, perfect health is AMAZING!

S. E. X - One of the most dirty things to do, and you are possibly exposed to diseases, but orgasms are too damn AMAZING!

STUDY - Oh boy!! one of the most challenging and stressful thing to do... The Knowledge, wisdom and opportunities it brings is AMAZING!



LOVE - The most risky thing to do to your heart. The most beautiful and AMAZING feeling ever!



FAMILY - The most annoying and stressful people to have in your life, but they are at the end THE ONLY people who will move mountains for you and remain loyal to you (Not all of them)... Now this is MAZING!



What do you find Crazy but AMAZING?

By Lufuno

Weekend round up

I know someone will want an update on Mzansi magic Fun Sundays.

I missed The perfect proposal…

Love Back 

Ba hlangane e’spotini (tarven)

Lady won the fight, then won the man…

He burnt her clothes,he beats her… Drinks a lot… He cheats a lot… They fight every weekend..

And she wants love back from this guy…

 Boot Camp

NO one went home, there are crushes in the house… Brian Baloyi is a HOT thang… I would uuuuhmm him

 

Our Perfect Wedding

Groom used to be a criminal, was convicted 20 years in jail, spent about 9/10 years, the bride waited for him.

Honestly, I felt the love… He is a changed man, and now a taxi owner of 12 taxis. The kiss was descent J

Perfect and fitting vows they shared.

RockVille
 

Nothing much happened. Lindi's younger bro (forgot his name) found out his gf is a prostitute, and Lindi wants JB's AK47 instead of fixing her marriage..

14^th MMA

I missed this too, because I was out eating my youth... :) Her are a few picture for your entertainment.

Kelly Khumalo

Nothing unexpected here... Nice...

 

Pam Andrews

She likes being "naked

 

Khanyi Mbau

I love the back of this dress, that turban was unnecessary though...

 

Dj LKG

No comment... What's your take?

 

Moozlie

I am not sure about her hey... She looks like she tries too hard.

 

Pearl Modiade

 I love this look... Something about it... I padded strapless bra nyana for a lil boost for those Mosquito bites would have done wonders... I can relate with this...

Thando Thabete

Hmmmmmmmmm Conflicted

 

Moneo

I like this....

 

All hale to Queen B*

This is gorgeous!! She looked Gorgeous!! Slay on slayer with your new hips and bum!!

 

Pearl Thusi

 

Lovely dress she wore! When I saw the details of this dress, it looked more like a wedding dress, than an award show dress.

 

 

I am so happy with Cassper Nyovest winning!! Well done to him... It was a great way to say to AKAK Phuma Kimi

 

 

By Lufuno