I think bloggers have touched on this topic a bit but I felt
that we should flash it out and discuss it in more detail because it’s one
topic that is very close to my heart. I feel strongly about s*xual liberation
especially where females are concerned, I think that it’s very hard for us
females to be liberated where s*x is concerned openly. Woman are judged for loving
s*x too much, for wanting to be adventurous and trying different things in the
bedroom, basically we are judged for wanting s*xual satisfaction from our partners
which should be a standard thing.
Female s*xual oppression has got us chained, we focus a lot
on not wanting to be judged for being sexual beings. We worry about our body
count because we are told that after a certain number we are considered damaged
goods and we are told that no good guy would want to marry us anymore.
Then there are these selfish guys who judge us for wanting
more in the bedroom, they look down on us if we initiate s*x instead of waiting
for them. They secretly label us sl*ts for wanting them to pleasure us and asking
them to try out new things in bed. I remember I once had this huge fight with
my Ex over s*x, the guy started calling me a horny sl*t because I specifically
called him up that night for s*x and immediately left after the dance. I was
livid ………….. I mean who the hell is he, standing proud and judging me for
wanting s*x just because I am woman. Long story short …………. that relationship
ended there and then.
I've also realized that it’s not just men who judge us or
look down at us for having a high body count, other woman do that too. It’s sad
to see females judging each other and saying nasty things about each other just
because you've slept with John, Paul and Peter in a period of three months. We
call each other ‘village bicycles ‘, ‘complex wh*res’ and ‘office escort’
without knowing why a person went from Peter to Paul and yet we will never dare
call a guy names for sleeping around.
Personally I’m tired of being s*xually oppressed, I’m tired
of being judged for wanting s*xual satisfaction from my partner. I will not
tolerate being called a whore just because I refuse to stick around for bad s*x
in fear of increasing my body count. I say females should own their bodies and
do as they please with them. I say we should embrace our sexual liberation and
own it!
Written by a S*xually Liberated Blogger :-)